Lately I noticed that our problem is that we wait for people's approval on what we do and how we act, and based on that approval we start to give the marks whether what we did was good enough or not. We wait for them to like our status on facebook, retweet our tweets on twitter, comment and like our photos on instagram and based on these likes, comments, and retweets we start to rate what we wrote, so if I write something that's really good and it didn't get that much approval I put it on the shelf and eliminate it completely. We wait for them to tell us they like that suite, dress, or pants and based on that approval we tend to also eliminate the clothes that didn't get much approval.
This way of thinking and dealing with things will get us nowhere but less self-confident as we wait for others to give us their impression and based on the impression we start build our confidence, secondly we leave no room for Allah's approval as we should only really care about what He says not what anyone else say and He should be the only source of our self-confidence. Think twice and thrice about your intentions before doing anything and see if you care about people's approval most or Allah's.
This way of thinking and dealing with things will get us nowhere but less self-confident as we wait for others to give us their impression and based on the impression we start build our confidence, secondly we leave no room for Allah's approval as we should only really care about what He says not what anyone else say and He should be the only source of our self-confidence. Think twice and thrice about your intentions before doing anything and see if you care about people's approval most or Allah's.
سعتها الواحد هايبقى عنده بجد سلام داخلي لما يبقى بيعامل ربنا...
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