Friday, 13 February 2015

Stay

We live this life and we want everything to stay as it is, just the same, and when it doesn't it aches in our hearts and it hurts a lot, whether the loss is something materialistic or someone. We indulge ourselves in a lot of situations that may even harm us to try to keep what we're losing, it's more like running after your shadow, you'll never get it, you'll just keep running and it'll hurt more.
The hardest word we can't utter is 'stay', stay just for one more time. Cry, pain, suffer and suffocation cause we've lost what we've been calling 'life', as people say to each others 'you're life' maybe they don't fully mean it by words, but in actions this sentence fits their situation perfectly. They have really taken people, and materialistic worldly things as their 'life' so if they lose one of these very things they've lost their lives too! It's not just sadness it's catastrophe.
That's why we should stop saying 'stay' to things that won't stay anymore, we should accept the fact that everything changes and nothing stays the same. That's dunya's first law, everything is temporary. If you're seeking perfection and eternal happiness here, rest please, you won't find it. It's not pessimism and it's not that this life is bad but it's not our home, we'll keep swinging from one state to another crumbling and falling and getting on our feet again in a never ending circle until we reach our real home, paradise.